Nadia and Lalit

I couldn’t have come up with a more fabulous way to end 2008 than to spend it photographing Nadia and Lalit’s amazing wedding ceremonies. Nadia and Lalit’s was my first Indian wedding, which actually started the night before with the Sangeet at OSU’s Barrister Club. The next morning, I met up with them and their immediate families for more ceremonies, then later in the day for the other festivities, including the wedding itself, which was a traditional Hindu ceremony performed in both English and Sanskrit, and held at The Venue at Smith Brothers (also a first, since I’d not been there before). I just can’t say enough about how wonderful everything was, from how welcoming and friendly everyone was to me, to how beautiful everything was with all the music and dancing and passion. It was truly a phenomenal experience for me and I look forward to my next Indian wedding in September and any others that should come my way! (hint hint)

So, without further delay, let’s get on to the pictures – there are LOTS!

Nadia, explaining her henna designs.


A family friend being introduced to Lalit’s brother.

Nadia, greeting Lalit’s mother the next morning.

Nadia’s father is charged with adorning her forearms with Indian bracelets that were soaked in milk and sugar (for a sweet life).

Nadia helping her father to get a proper fit of his turban.

The next part of the morning ceremonies involved putting a turmeric (spice) mixture on the face, hands and feet of Nadia and Lalit by the women who were present, Nadia and Lalit’s mothers and sisters.

Next, strings were tied around Nadia and Lalit’s wrists as a “game” designed to help them get to know each other better after the wedding by untying all the knots the family tied into the strings. This “getting to know you” game is really only necessary in arranged marriages where it’s possible the bride and groom do not know each other, but they participated in the tradition nonetheless. Nadia’s dad tied her wrist string with a slip knot, but Lalit’s sister tied a bunch of teeny tiny knots in his string!

Later in the day, it was time to get the clothes ready, both American outfits and Indian outfits.

Now, it’s off to see Lalit in his American clothes for the first time and do some quick portraits.

Lalit’s henna.

Time now to get into the Indian clothing and jewelry. This was one of my favorite parts of the day.

The wedding ceremony itself was amazing and filled with tradition.

I loved the recessional. Handfuls of puffed rice were placed in Nadia’s hands and she threw the rice back over her head where it landed in her mother’s shawl.

An overall of The Venue once it was set up with the tables for dinner.

The dance floor was constantly full and the DJ played both American and Indian music, which is my personal favorite. I even recognized some of the songs as ones I have played myself on iTunes!

Lalit.

Everyone took turns drinking out of this extremely large glass boot.

Ringing in the new year with a kiss at midnight.

Congratulations, Nadia and Lalit, and I can’t thank you enough for allowing me to share in your fabulous ceremonies!

Happy Anniversary, Katie and Travis!

With the holidays and everything else, I almost forgot to blog a Happy Anniversary to Katie and Travis, who were married one year ago December 15 at Royal American Golf Club. That was the one and only day in December that we had snow and it was really beautiful.

So, along with a big Happy Anniversary shout out, here are a few images to commemorate their day:

Cross Country

I’ve always wanted to take a driving trip across the middle part of the country so that’s what I did last week. I crammed in so much that by the time I got home I almost felt like I’d never left; like what I’d seen was really just a movie viewed in slow fast-forward. That’s the way I like to travel, though – warp speed, hitting the highlights. I don’t need to live in a place to get a feel for it and I’m not one to spend hours browsing museums or hitting all the shops. So I’m sure you’ll be surprised to hear all the states and towns I visited in my five-day trip.

It started in Colorado, one of two places I spent the most time. I saw Denver, Golden, Red Rocks, South Park, Buena Vista and St. Elmo, among others. Then down to New Mexico, where I stayed in a mineral springs resort at Ojo Caliente. Drove through a harrowing canyon on the way to Taos then south through the state to Amarillo, Texas to see Cadillac Ranch. Then it was on to Oklahoma City where I saw the memorial to the Oklahoma City bombing. Up through Oklahoma into Kansas, and all the way across to Kansas City, Missouri, which was a pretty happening town. Had to have barbecue there, but I have to say that I like City Barbecue here better.

Then on to St. Louis and a sharp right down to Memphis to see the March of the Ducks at the Peabody Hotel – which I wouldn’t have known about if it weren’t for the guys at Winslow’s BBQ in KCMO. Every day at 11 and 5, the ducks are marched to and from the fountain in the center of the Peabody’s lobby. A red carpet extends from the elevator to the fountain, and the ducks march down a set of movable steps out of the fountain, onto the carpet and straight to the elevator where they go upstairs to their penthouse for the night. It’s a major production, complete with a Duckmaster. The crowd in the lobby was unbelievable for a ceremony that lasted maybe 10 seconds once the ducks hopped out of the fountain. Worth seeing though just for the cuteness factor.

After Memphis came Nashville, which I liked quite a lot and will definitely visit again. The best meal of the trip was at BBKing’s restaurant in Nashville, where I had chicken fried chicken (which had been marinated in buttermilk and hot sauce!) and the best white cheddar macaroni and cheese ever. I will not soon forget that scrumptious meal!

So, without further delay, here are some highlights of the trip:

Red Rocks. Nice, but the altitude about did me in.

This is an outdoor art installation in Buena Vista, Colorado, right alongside the Arkansas River. I liked the tumbleweed hung up on the coffee table. I’d never seen tumbleweeds before and when they blow in front of your car when you’re doing about 80 it’s hard not to think you’re going to hit an animal, it happens so quickly.

Aspens lining the road on the way up to St. Elmo, Colorado, a ghost town up about 10,000 feet, which proved to be about 2,000 more feet than my body liked.

A feed mill beside a gas station somewhere in New Mexico.

Arrived in Amarillo at the perfect time of day lighting-wise for pictures at Cadillac Ranch. If you’re not aware, Cadillac Ranch is an art installation in a cow pasture off Route 40 (old Route 66). Ten real Cadillacs buried nose deep and spray painted by numerous visitors. I did not partake of the painting. It was freezing out there and because it was a wide open space, the wind was wicked. I have to say this is my favorite image from the whole trip.

According to the guides at the Oklahoma City memorial, this fence had been erected to keep people out while the memorial was being constructed. Visitors started decorating the fence with their own personal memorials and the powers-that-be decided to leave it up once the memorial was finished.

This looks simple, all these chairs in rows, but it’s actually quite a complex set-up. The rows are designed to represent the floors of the federal building where people worked or were when the bomb went off. There is one chair for each person killed on the site (168), with some smaller chairs representing the children in the daycare and five chairs off to the side representing those who were killed on the street outside the building.

The Honorary Duckmaster watching his charges exit the fountain at The Peabody Hotel in Memphis.

They’re like little feathered celebrities.

Some interesting sights on the walk back from The Peabody.

There were some amazing neighborhoods in Nashville, this one being near Brentwood. I loved the design of this home. Most of the homes in this neighborhood were massive and on multi-acre lots.

On “live venue” row, Broadway, in Nashville.

I don’t know who this band was but they were awesome. That guy could really sing. The interesting thing about this was that the live bands start playing in the bars first thing in the morning and go all day and night.

Thanks for sharing my vacation!

Steve - February 14, 2009 - 2:48 pm

I didn’t know you went on vacation! Great pix as always. You know, Springsteen recorded a song on his 1980 album, “The River”, called “Cadillac Ranch.” A great song about this very locale…

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